C for Charity and Chinese NY

Did something beautiful in this CNY. A charity work in another town. Amazing! I like this vacation, and liked the activities too. Incidentally, I'm on holiday in Jakarta, to celebrate the CNY with my big family. So I can join this event.
This charity is supported by DPP PATRIA, means it's organized by the center in Jakarta.


There are about 200 families in this village. Many of them are poor, but they also deserve a chance to feel the glorious of CNY once a year. It's our duties to help them make it happen.
We shared angpao for the children, and some groceries for their parents too.

Just two of us, Me and Kimkim are represent Bandarlampung. The other participants are from Jakarta and Banten. We got some friends of course, beside a lot of them we have ever know before. And we have some fun :D
Thanks to DPP PATRIA, who gives us this great chance..



By the way, Happy Chinese New Year 2563!
In this water dragon year, may all being happy. Let's collect the red envelopes called 'angpao' until cap go meh (15th Lunar). And don't forget to catch the dragon :D

The road of vacation


All campus activities has done! Finally holiday..
Will celebrate the CNY with my big family this year. At Jakarta, at my Grandma's home. Yaiiyy! Love it. My new clothes are ready also :)
I already have some plans to spend my time there, will spend this weekend catching-up with some friends in Jakarta. A social work actually, a charity before CNY. It will be fun I hope. Ah! Really can't wait.


My flight today, with my aunty also.
If I say I don't really want to go home, actually the-wanted-to-go-home-feeling is still exists in my mind. But it only appears at certain moments like this, not in every time. I love my home town, Lampung, and my current town too, Medan. I came here to study, but I think I really fell in love with this city. Their culinary, their multicultural, their style, their spirit. Hmmph, it's something a treasure... Seriously.

See you next semester Medan! I'll back soon :)

Pajamas's Party

Exam week is over. And now, we're just waiting for the results..
Have some days to relax. There are many ways to breaking all our stress. So we are the girls who-were-born-to-party-but-forced-to-study (Dress, Mega, Evi, Ary, Henny, Indah), doing some fun. It's pajamas's party time! LOL :D


The fact that I realize is... we are the good gossipers! Seriously. What is the normally done if some girls had gathered? We had some gossips all night long, watched movie, ate some snacks, and also played UNO until mid night. We provide wet powder for the losers... wakkksss!
The players are:


Yeah! And the winner is... ME!

It wasn't like a real pajamas's party actually, because some of us haven't pajamas, including me :p
Hahaha, I never wear pajamas when I sleep. I prefer to wear the big shirt and sporty short. Just simply.
Ohya it more looks not like a party, because before 1 o'clock my friends were already fallen asleep. Very very good guys! And I was the only one who still awake with my insomniac! Damn it.


Also had more times to went around the mall, and watched in cinema...

Rumput gue lebih 'hijau'

Rumput tetangga memang lebih hijau, lebih bagus, lebih menarik.

Kali ini gue mau berpendapat sedikit, sedikit kontroversial maksudnya. Agak kurang sopan mungkin, kesannya kayak perempuan yang..gitu deh! Berhubung di post gue sebelumnya, gue ngebahas tentang apa yg pantes dan nggak pantes untuk dipublikasiin di blog.
Gue pernah ngobrol sama yang bersangkutan secara langsung, tapi kayaknya bakal lebih 'ngena' kalo disampaikan melalui tulisan kayak gini. Boleh dong ya sekali-kali ngebahas yang agak frontal~


Jadi, pandangan gue langsung berubah sewaktu seorang cewek, curhat begini:
"Gue takut nih Dress. Takut terjerumus terlalu dalem.."

"Emang apasih masalah lo?"

"Gue mulai tertarik sama orang. Sayangnya, dia adalah seorang suami..sekaligus bapak!"

"........" *Gue speechless!

Ya! Gue nggak nyangka dia punya perasaan begitu. Perasaan yg nggak wajar, yg ditujukan ke orang yg salah. Dan yg bikin gue lebih nggak-bisa-ngomong-apa-apa lagi tuh, gue kenal dia, dan seharusnya dia bukan tipe perempuan yg kayak gitu. Dia perempuan terhormat, berasal dari keluarga terpandang, berpendidikan, cukup menarik, taat beragama. Tapi kenapa bisa kehidupan pribadinya begitu?!! Pokoknya itu kayak bukan dia banget..
*Lemes! Nggak abis pikir!

Gue ngerti sih, ngerti banget gimana perasaan dia. Ya memang dia nggak bisa sepenuhnya disalahin juga. Kadang, seseorang yg udah berpasangan memang terlihat jauh lebih menarik, lebih dewasa, lebih mengayomi. Gue tau itu! Karena seringkali gue juga ngerasain hal yg sama. Gue juga banyak mengagumi orang. Contoh nya, gue kagum sama para pemimpin muda yg punya leadership oke. Gue kagum sama dosen-dosen gue yg berwawasan luas. Gue kagum sama dokter dan guru yg mau mengabdi ke daerah terpencil. Gue kagum sama laki-laki dewasa yg bisa menghargai perempuan. Banyak kenalan gue yg memenuhi kriteria seperti itu, dan mereka semua rata-rata udah berumahtangga.

Tapi bedanya, gue bisa mengontrol perasaan itu jadi cuma sebatas 'kagum', nggak lebih. Sejauh-jauhnya rasa kagum itu paling nggak berakhir jadi 'fans'. Udah titik. Nggak boleh ada kelanjutannya lagi. Hmmph, bisa ditebak dong gimana kalo kita membiarkan perasaan itu terus tumbuh dan berkembang. Jadi semakin gandrung.. It's a big DON'T! Bayangin keluarga nya di rumah. Coba empati dikit sama istri dan anak-anak nya. Kejam banget kalo demi membahagiakan diri sendiri, jadi ngorbanin banyak perasaan. Iya nggak sih? Apapun konteks nya, kalo masih punya rasa ingin memiliki milik orang lain itu salah banget, dan bener-bener nggak bisa ditolerir.


Sorry, disini bukannya gue mau ngebuka aib. Secara perempuan itu adalah orang yg gue segani dan sangat gue kagumi juga sampe sekarang, gue nggak mau dia terjerumus terlalu dalem untuk masalah ini. Masih banyak pilihan kok.. Ngapain harus takut terjerumus kalo nggak pernah memulai? Intinya, jangan maen air kalo nggak mau basah.

Post ini sengaja gue tulis buat dia, semoga dia baca, sadar diri, sadar status, dan mau ngedengerin nasehat gue yg nggak seberapa ini.
Well, mensyukuri apa yg udah kita punya, dan nggak berusaha merebut kepunyaan orang lain, itu merupakan suatu berkah yg luar biasa.. Kayak kata suatu iklan komersial,
"Rumput gue lebih hijau daripada rumput tetangga!"

First post in 2012

This is my first post in 2012...
More fresh, more bright. Isn't it? Hahaha, please smile first before you read more :)

Got a-week-year-end-holiday. Not really fantastic, but I could say that it was the laziest holiday ever!
Imagine, I didn't have anything to do! Hmmph, oke I corrected, I had some. Some activities that's not important. Slept all day long, browsing, played tennis every morning, did some organization's homework. So boring, just same as usual days.

But at least, I was able to be proud a bit for doing this artwork for my bedroom:


It wasn't much different from my wall-of-fame in the past, in my boarding house. Do you remember it?
But now, I just pick the professionalism photography collection, especially in fashion photography part. I'll add more later.. Love it! It will be my favorite corner to take some photos :D

Talking about this year, 2012..
I'm having no resolutions actually. I just hope this year will be nice to me, to my study, family, money, relationship, friends, and all my activities..
Ohya, first of all: Good luck for my exam! The last exam before holiday..



Once again, Happy new year 2012!
Be a better person. Get ready to rise up. Then fulfill our dreams..
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